Weather helm
Frank, I'm trying to picture exactly what you had there. It sounds like you had your main halyard tight( always a good thing), the main sheet all the way out, the jib furled some, the jib sheet pulled in tight, and the rudder hard over to windward while on a close reach? Is this what you were doing? IF this is the case, then your main must've been luffing and the jib was doing the driving. There's one rule about sail trim I always remember: "When in doubt, let it out." Tht is, let the sail out just until it luffs, then pull it back in until it just stops luffing. Of course, your tell-tails will show you. Since you're new to this, you and/or your mates may be a bit leary of a 10-15 degree heel. You shouldn't worry... I think most feel that 15 is optimum; 30 is a bit exciting, but by no means necessary.Further, I would think that if you had your rudder turned hard over and the boat didn't respond, is it possible that you might've been stalled? With a stiff breeze, you often need to get up a good head of steam to get you around on a tack. As Steve Dion mentioned, it'd probably be better to fall off to a bit to gain speed and when you DO start your tack, resist the temptation to kick the rudder over as far as she'll go; it'll act as a brake and actually slow you down at a time when you're counting on momentum alone to bring you around. Smooth & easy is the key. One more thing... Don't worry about making mistakes! We're all novices at one time or another, and I'm sure you can't do something that someone else hasn't already done before! ENJOY!Jim Maroldos/v: Lil' Wass Ett