My two cents...
A sink drain should go down to a through-hull, not to a drain on the topside. First, you don't want your washwater dribbling down the side of your boat. Second, you want the sink to drain on either tack. Third, with the sink amidships, you'd still need a seacock on a topside drain, since it would be so near -- sometimes under -- the heeled waterline. Ideally, the sink is close enough to centerline that its bottom is above the waterline on both tacks, though that's hard to achieve on a small boat. I almost agree with Peggie, but not quite. The throughhull should be closed when the drain is not in use. I've washed many sets of dishes under way. It's much easier with the seacock open. ;-)