Barkeep's Friend can be good for cleaning, it contains a small amount of oxalic acid so it will clean and brighten the wood, but it's not so harsh as to damage gelcoat or paint. You can find it at many grocery and hardware stores.
We're going to try oil this time, have to strip off the worn/flaking varnish. Looking for an oil that has enough UV protection to stand up to the extreme sun, heat and humidiity we have here in LA (Lower Alabama).
Have been researching oils and found that there are true "oils" and then there are "wiping varnishes" that are mixtures of oil, varnish and thinner (often mineral spirits). True oils include linseed (not recommended as takes forever to dry out), boiled linseed (better) and tung (although many oils marketed as tung apparently aren't, and true pure tung oil also takes forever to dry out). Some wiping varnishes are marketed as oils, for example Watco Teak Oil; and apparently some oils marketed as "tung" are really a wiping mixture. One clue is to look at ingredients (if they're listed); any showing mineral spirits is most likely a wiping varnish.
I haven't decided yet what I'm going to use; leaning towards the Watco product as it seems to have more UV resistance than just teak oil. We've got LOTS of exterior wood on the boat and I like the idea of faster application of oil/wiping varnish, rather than the 2+ weeks it would take me to get 6-8 coats of varnish on all the brightwork.
Mike Turner
Lazyjack 32 schooner "Mary'Lis"
Mobile Bay, Alabama