A lot in the ways in which lithium batteries are approached should have also existed with lead batteries. The attention on lithium stems from when they used to be very expensive, and everyone was sensitive to losing such an investment. Probably coupled with their chemistry properties and operation being relatively unknown. Now, they are cheaper than lead, and their operation very well known.
So I find it odd to recommend a backup power source for lithium, when stories of lead batteries suddenly going dead are legion, yet nobody thought twice about it. For a lithium battery to go dead and shut itself down, one would have to drain it to 10% minimum - and everything will operate perfectly until then. A lead battery will give up the ghost well before getting to this level, and any higher draw equipment will have stopped operating beforehand.
Similarly for a BMS shutting down for overcharging. Again, legions of stories of smoking acid-spewing (and exploding) lead batteries from overcharge, yet nobody thought twice about this. Even though overcharging lithium is safer than overcharging lead - particularly gel or AGM.
I have two personal experiences to compare. We took a lightning strike with flooded lead batteries - loss of electronic and electrical equipment. Two of the batteries turned red hot, blew their caps and spewed boiling acid and fumes, and the terminals began to melt. Luckily I had installed external switches on each battery so they could be individually disconnected from each other and the electrical system, because without that, there was no way to approach the batteries for several hours, and the other batteries would have continued to discharge into them, and the risk of fire or explosion was very real. It was a total mess to deal with. Afterwards, the remaining batteries were also pretty much toast, as even though they "worked", they have little capacity left, and would boil when they charged.
Fast forward several years, and I had just completed a change to lithium. At that time (almost 10yrs ago), they did not have a BMS. We experienced another lightning strike - loss of electronics and electrical equipment. The lithium batteries also died. Their manner of death is they just stopped providing power. We were off the boat at the time, so I don't know if they ever got hot on their way to death. There was no evidence of any damage to them - the vents were still intact, no spillage, no melted terminals, the cases looked fine, etc. When I removed the cells from their retaining clamps, all of them swelled into footballs. That was the only indication of damage. The cell voltages were 0.0-0.5V, so these were truly dead and had passed well beyond the "safe" point of discharge.
Outside of isolated small starting batteries, I will never have dangerous lead batteries on a boat again.
With this irony staring them in the face, the ABYC does not change their recommendations to be similar for lead batteries. Even with countless examples of damage and loss of boats caused by lead batteries, and no examples of such with lithium (LFP).
Mark