I have the little Yanmar Y3 with a cone type transmission it is brand-new only 300 hours. I have had everybody and their brother come in on what should be used as lubricant for the transmission some people say automatic transmission fluid Otherside 30 weight I finally got my hands on a Yanmar owners manual it recommends 30 weight without All detergent next question also I've had people tell me that I understand I shouldc fun my transmission in reverse under sail I've had other people tell me to leave it in forward I finally got a memo from the Yanmar company they tell me to leave it in neutral or otherwise transmission damage could occur does anyone have any advise for this newbie