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According to the Oday literature, the minimum trailering weight of an Oday 23 is 3085lbs. Add the weight of any equipment on the boat (like an outboard, sails, fuel, batteries, gear) plus the weight of the trailer itself, and my guess would be that you would be over your 3300 lb. limit. If the boat is cheap enough, it would be worth it to rent a full-size pickup or van to tow your new boat. Make sure whatever vehicle you use has a real towing package (big radiator, heavy duty brakes, big ol' gas-sucking 8 cylinder engine). There are also companies that exist solely to transport boats. This being the off season, you might get a price break. BTW, the Oday 23 is a great boat; you're gonna love it.