Hey,
My thoughts on these matters:
What type of sailing do you do or plan on doing? Unless you are sailing in real lousy weather and at night I just don't see the need for tethers.
Personally I use a tether twice a year - when I race in the Around Long Island Regatta (and spend two nights at sea). The rules dictate using a tether if you leave the cockpit at night. Since we are always doing sail changes, tacking and gybing, I wear my harness and use the tether when i'm out of the cockpit.
I have been sailing since 2003, and racing since 2005. I have done some overnight cruises. I have never seen a harness and tether used except when doing the ALIR. I have raced on J44, J30,, J29, J80, C&C 34, 35, 36, 110, 115, O'day, Catalina, and a bunch of other boats. I've done the American Yacht Club spring and fall series, Off Soundings spring and fall series and bunch of other races as well. I've sailed in calms and storms. Again, I have never seen a harness used except at night in the ALIR.
I do think that if I were to be sailing for days and weeks at a time in all sorts of conditions I would use a tether more often. I just don't see the need to use one when in the cockpit, or in good weather. On the boats I sail on the cockpit is well protected and I don't see how you go overboard.
I think I am safety conscious. I almost always wear a PFD (the only exceptions are on a fully crewed boat in very light wind). I also carry a VHF with me (SH 890 w GPS / DSC). My PFD has a strobe attached. To be honest, For the type of sailing *I* do I think a tether is just not necessary. Most of the time I am sailing in the Long Island Sound. The water is not that cold. there are usually other boats in the vicinity. If I'm a race boat, one of the crew should notice that I've gone overboard and they can start the COB rescue. If I'm by myself on my boat, then I the DCS alert on my VHD will reach another boater and they can come and get me. I should be able to stay alive long enough for that to happen. When I'm sailing alone I am VERY careful any time I have to leave the cockpit (which typically only happens when I drop the mainsail).
Barry
I've heard a few different opinions here in the marina. I feel in my opinion that you should tether. To be honest I never have in the past sailing experiences which was 20 plus years ago. With a child and wife I think much differently these days, and safety is my number 1 priority.