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I have tried ....reefed main alone - agree that boat loses pointing ability but in real strong winds some is lost anyway. Overall this is not the worst strategy. Boat may have trouble with tacking. Tendency to get caught in irons - forcing a gybe in bad conditions. Especially if you don't reduce windage from all that stuff on deck e.g. biminis, dodgers, dinghys, etc. jib alone - poor pointing ability and lots of folks say it is dangerous for the rig. I have done it in 25 - 30 but probably won't do it again. Only benefit is it is easy to set and strike sail without going on deck -- if your furler is set up correctly and will bring in sail in such high winds!double reefed main and reefed jib - this is without a doubt the best. I have thought of adding a third reef and may do so next year. you can also use the traveler adjustment and change the jib sheet position to de-power the sails. I also de-trim the main and let it spill air - lots of it if needed - to keep the boat up on its feet.Of course the best strategy is to go in a different direction! Head downwind - it is a brand new day! Hence the old adage "Gentleman neber sail to weather". If you are cruising, just pick a different port to head for! After all, you came out there to sail, who cares where you go. Don't let your crew make promises about your cruising schedule - party where you get to not where you committed to. Just keep your options open and keep off the lee shores.Nearly as I can remember every one I ever heard of who sunk or crashed got there by insisting on going to a particular place at a particular time no matter what the conditions. The list includes Titanic, Edmund Fitzgerald, Charley's Crab, Great White, ... get the pic??But then it is a lesson I am slow to learn too and at least once a season I find myself going the wrong way at the worst time. And of course if you race, the decision is already made.Have fun, Sail safe and fastBill MurrayGood Faith H29.5