The trouble with brief mesages, like email, is the continuous potencial for unintended ill-will. We're not a-holes. We just don't take the time to sugar coat it.This thread is so full of anger from the simple statement of please don't pull on my stanchions. By the tone of some, 'It's the boat owners fault" that the stations are not better built. A lot of sailors really are a - holes.
But a thread of "oh my poor dear" would not educate, and the OPs thread pointed to a list of misconceptions (that stantions are more than net suports) and boat handling errors (the OP is correct, that folks use them for the wrong things).
I've been straightened out, sometimes roughly, when I posted something incorrect. I learned from it.