"--- as Zee said, bow lines given to stupid idiots on the dock who pull them in hard
--- Please, stay away from me when I'm docking, even singlehanded and it's VERY windy, 'cuz most of the time, if not ALL the time, you mess up a simple situation --- help is, and should be unecessary; it's the skippers role to dock the boat, not the dummies on shore"
..."stupid"...really? Quite often people walking around on docks are simply looking at the boats, not experienced sailors/ boaters...hand them a dock line and they are very likely to pull in hard, not because they are stupid, or dummies...just not experienced boaters. Occasionally you'll find a person on a dock that realizes if he yanks in on the front, the back is going out...Although I'm quite capable of docking my boat by myself, I never turn down help at a dock...it's rude.