Everything most people think about soldering irons is wrong. Getting a big hot high powered iron is ALWAYS going to be the best. The only limitation will be if the tip is too large to fit in the space of what you need to solder. Here is why. Heat takes time to travel across the metal surface you are trying to solder. If the heat supply is infinitely hot, you can get the piece hot enough to melt what you need to solder before the heat has time to travel to where it will damage other components. Use a hot iron and get in and our fast. Too low of a temperature will cause you to sit on the part too long, the heat will travel up the wire and ruin the insulation or the component you are trying to solder.
One problem you will have with soldering on your boat is solder does not stick to corroded wires. heat does not conduct to corroded wires. Sometimes using acid will help clean the surface to make the solder stick to the wire. Also remember solder travels towards the heat. Put the source of the heat where you want to solder to flow to. If you put the solder on the opposite side of the part from the iron, this will cause the solder to flow all the way through multiple strands. You may have to put a little solder at the heat source to get the heat to conduct to the wire, but you should feed the solder form the opposite end.
Soldering is required for what I do for a living. I solder everything from large flat stainless steel foils to surface mount microprocessors.