You will need a bigger boat or your going to need to have everything removable and a big storage locker.
Competitive racers have their boats set up minimalist - with only the things necessary to win a race. Nothing extra.
One local skipper had a ships saying "If you use it (the porta potty) you have to empty it."
Enjoyable cruising is about having anything one needs to be comfortable which translates into weight, and more weight translates into more drag, and more drag translates into slower boat.
I've heard many stories about what diehard racers do to lighten their boat, legally and illegally, because weight makes a difference.
In fact, there is one very good sailor here that races solo, no heavy crew, and he always wins and that's on a J-35. Well, I say "always" because I've never heard of him not winning.
So, I kinda of have to agree about the difference between boating styles, racing vs. cruising. Bottom line: It's all about where one wants to be, at one end or the other (racing or cruising), or just happy in the middle (maybe). Don't forget, good crew likes food and drink$ after the race and the skipper gets to do all the repair$.