Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill and the
Research Triangle area is where you are should look if your children are involved in sports like lacrosse, hockey, soccer, etc. It is about 2 1/2 hours to Oriental, sailing capital of NC, anc about the same to Morehead/Beaufort area and Wilmington. The best sailing is based around Oriental and the upper Tar River (Washington, Bath, Belhaven) area. You will have to pay attention if you draw 6' as areas and some marina channels are skinny in heavy SW winds, but otherwise you would be in good shape. Good marinas and anchorages are aplenty within 4-8 hour sail and very friendly to boaters. Wide variety of options from racing to cruising and something for all the family. Take a weeks vacation and come down and drive around Washington, Belhaven, take the ferry over to Oriental, take the ferry over to Morehead City/Beaufort, ride up to Cedar Island and take the ferry to Ocracoke Island, then take the ferry to Hatteras and drive to the lower Chesapeake. Insofar as restaurants, there are plenty to chose from in each area, depending on your taste. Good luck in your decision...