While jybing my Asym just after the start of the Single-Handed Race, I learned that it IS possible to wrap an Asym around the headstay...
That said, I prefer inside jybes. It should be noted that inside or outside is dictated by where your halyard block is: if it's above or outside the headstay, you should jybe outside - if it's below or inside the headstay, inside jybes.
For an inside jybe, I tighten the off-sheet, then head directly downwind so the main blankets the chute. Then pull it over with the off-sheet, sometimes using the other sheet to make sure it doesn't go too far forward. Once across, the chute will fill and you're wing-wing until you jybe the main over. I think the "trick" is to tighten up on the off-sheet before the jybe so the chute's clew doesn't go ahead of the headstay.
Oh, and make SURE you're not just hanging onto the sheet bare-handed: when the chute fills it'll rip the rope through your hand causing a BAD rope-burn! (Don't ask me how I know...)
druid