No Rick, I'm not gonna kill you...
Only note that you've spent far more on 4 Jabsco toilets over 15 years than it would have cost you to just keep 'em well lubricated and replace 'em every 5 years when they need more than lubrication. It's not necessary to disassemble the pump to lubricate it with teflong grease...just take the top off, put a healthy squirt in it, pump a few times to spread the grease all over the pump cylinder wall...and it's done. Put the top back on. And I don't think anybody knows what a joker valve actually does, 'cuz it seems everybody blames it for any symptom any toilet develops...even holding tanks filling up due to leaving the overboard seacock open. A joker valve has just ONE function: it's just a one-way valve that prevents backflow from flooding the toilet. And the operative word there is "flood"...even a brand new joker valve can't prevent slow seepage. It's not even in the pump, it's in the toilet discharge hose fitting...so it can't possibly have anything to do with pumping efficiency unless there's a clog in it, which rarely happens, and would prevent ANYthing from going down. It shouldn't need replacement more than once a year...not even that often unless the "lips" have stretched open more than a centimeter and/or have become encrusted with minerals.Since Hugh's toilet seems to be working efficiently to bring flush water in, I suspect his problem may not be in the toilet at all, especially if he's feeling any backpressure--in which case, the first place to look is the tank vent thru-hull for a blockage. If there's no backpressure, there's a good chance there's sea water mineral buildup in the head discharge hose, reducing the diameter and restricting flow. I've seen it reduce a 1.5" hose to 1/2" in just a couple of years. Checking for that will require taking the discharge hose off the toilet to see what the inside of it looks like. If the joker has never been replaced in the 5 years he's had the boat, I'd say yes, it does need replacing by now whether it's mineral encrusted or not. But only if it IS encrusted could it be the cause of his problem...and the hose will be too. If that is the problem, white vinegar will dissolve the minerals--although it will take several doses of it over several days to do it. A cupful down the toilet once a week will prevent the problem from recurring. Muriatic acid will do it in one treatment, but needs to be handled VERY carefully. Muriatic acid is NOT a preventative, only a cure for severe cases. Before rebuilding or replacing (with a 5 year old Jabsco, I'd just replace but it's his choice), I'd eliminate those two possibilities. I'd also lubricate the toilet as I described above with SuperLube--the thick teflon grease in a tube, not the spray or liquid.