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Speaking from my own experience, I think that, no matter how much you read, new boaters are inclined to think that they ARE prepared to deal with whatever comes along. Experience is what teaches us which spares are really necessary to be carried and what situations are potentially dangerous. Boating is one of those activities where you do learn by doing. When we started sailing, almost 40 years ago, my wife and I took several classes from the Power Squadron and I, with the arrogance of youth (compounded by being a fighter pilot), assumed that I could deal with whatever came along. And, for the most part, I did. Thinking back, I believe that the only help I can recall requesting was for an occasional tool that I had not thought I would need. And one time I managed to run out of fuel when powering down the Washington coast, enroute from Seattle to Astoria. In that instance we "borrowed" five gallons of gas from a fisherman. We did have provisions enough to wait a couple of weeks for the wind to come up, but thought it wiser to get to shore - my vacation did have limits. (One of those things that you have to learn for each boat is your fuel burn rate for various conditions - in this case, towing a dingy had increased ours by 50%.) In general, I think that folks should solve their own problems. Helping yourself is one of those satisfying things about cruising. It would be foolish, however, not to seek assistance if you are actually in danger, not merely inconvenienced. While anchoring in the Solomon Islands, one windy day, I did manage to snag another vessel's anchor and had to take it in tow until we cleared the other boats. There was no one aboard that vessel and we could have just stayed clear of the harbor until the weather improved. We thought it wiser, however, to ask for someone from shore to assist with reanchoring the other boat and that's what we did. Friends came out by dinghy and assisted. In our present cruising grounds, the most common reason for assistance requests is due to running out of fuel, or engine failure, in areas with substantial tidal currents. In those cases, it would generally be foolish not to ask for help.Having said all of this, I have met folks on the water that have taken NO boating courses from anyone and apparently have read nothing to prepare themselves for their activities.