Pumping mast
Mike is right. While your boat is in the slip, and assuming you don't have a furling jib, go to the foredeck and pluck the forestay like a harp. Watch the mast. On smaller boats there might be some movement. On larger, you won't see a thing. Now hang from the forestay with all your weight and measure the amount of mast deflection. Now add a force to the forestay that represents the amount of load on your jib in a 25 knot breeze. Think about the forces being exerted on the forestay, the mast deflection, and then imagine the boat in heavy seas, pounding into the waves. The loading and unloading of the forestay as the boat gets thrown around can set up a motion in the mast referred to as pumping that can cause the mast to fail.The main sail under load doesn't exert stress the same way a jib does. The main is attached to the mast, not the rigging. When the jib is under load, forces are transmitted to the mast at the connection point of the jibstay only, up high, where there is the least amount of support from other rigging. When the main is under load, the forces are transmitted to the mast in decreasing amounts as you go up the mast. Much of the load is lower, where there is more strength in the extrusion, and more support from rigging. Apples and oranges. The risks are higher in boats with masts out of column, or boats with masts that are raked aft. The length of extrusion above the spreaders is bent back, under load, and failures can occur at the spreaders.There are many rigging shops in the SF Area. Stick you head in the door of several and ask their opinion.