Sailing days are over - for good!

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May 26, 2004
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Macgregor Venture 25 Trailer Sailor
Eleven months since the cancer diagnosis. I've had four major surgeries, many hours of recovery and rehabilitation and I'm left with a body that aches all the time and I have multiple lifting and bending restrictions. Mis'Adventure has not been wet since June 2010. Last weekend while visiting the lake to watch people sailing I brought up the discussion with Pam about the boat. She informed me that I'm her sailing partner and if I wasn't there she wasn't sailing anymore either. So our wonderful boat is going on the market soon. I will be posting in the classified section as soon as I can muster up the strength to post all the information. Fair winds to you all. If you see an old guy wondering the docks looking fondly at boats, say hi and offer him a ride!
 

Phil Herring

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Mar 25, 1997
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Very sorry to hear that, Phil. But the most important thing is that you're still here to wander around docks! Please stop by and say hello now and then, okay?
 

Sumner

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Jan 31, 2009
5,254
Macgregor & Endeavour 26S and 37 Utah's Canyon Country
Phil if you guys get to SE Utah please stop. Probably won't have the boat in the water, but there is usually gas in the Suburban and some really pretty canyon country here to go out and see,

Sum and Ruth
 
May 4, 2005
4,062
Macgregor 26d Ft Lauderdale, Fl
pm sent.

maybe things will improve.... you might want to hold on til at least spring when the market should be stronger.

prayers sent your way, for your recovery.
 

Jim25

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May 17, 2010
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Macgregor Venture 25 Lake Michigain
Phil if you and the miss are in the lower MI area we will get together for some fun on the water just give me a pm and we will make it happen. Best regards

Jim & Mary
 
Jan 19, 2010
12,557
Hobie 16 & Rhodes 22 Skeeter Charleston
Phil:

I've been down that road. Only one major surgery for me but three rounds with the chemicals. Don't give up! I'm strong again and so far clear... It has been 3 years. I'll send a few prayers up your way. When you are ready their will always be a nice used boat on the market.

God bless,

r
 
Jun 22, 2009
108
Macgregor Venture 25 Seattle
If you find your self in the beautiful Pacific Northwest I would love to take you out. Please be sure to stay in touch and thanks so much for all the help advise and conversation.

Carolyn
 
Nov 24, 2010
91
Seafarer 26 Ruskin
Phil all the best to you and your wife. I thought I was going to loose my sister last year but she us making a come back. Don't ever give up.
 
Feb 19, 2010
62
Macgregor 1995 26s Windycrest Sailing Club, Lake Keystone, OK
I certainly know what you are going through. I was lucky and mine was caught early. I had two surgeries, one for the cancer and the second to put the stuffing back in humpty's dump after I managed to herniate the entire 8" original abdominal incision. I've been cancer free for two years. I still have some problems as a result of the surgeries and from the chemo, but I'm learning to live with those.

Hang in there and we wish you the best of luck.
 
Nov 23, 2009
62
Macgregor 25 My Back Yard
Phil I hate so baddly to hear that news. I got you in my prayers. Try to stay strong and have faith in God that he will take care of you. He truly is a worker of miracles.
 

yammy

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Aug 16, 2010
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dear Phil,

may God be with you, like always, no matter what tomorrow brings. below is a bit of a personal story hopefully you don't mind me sharing with you.

i'm in my late thirties. over a decade ago, i began having arthritis and used to limp 6 to 7 days a week. because of the potential side effect of western medicine, i ended up choosing asian medicine. after 3 years of having been on it day and night, i now limp a few days a month. however, in the back of my mind, i know my body well enough that one day, i will have to say good bye to sailing, likely sooner than some (age wise). for that reason, i went ahead and bought my first boat this year, and spent every bit of my free time sailing with those i love and care, and alone when i wanted to single hand. when that day (giving up sailing) comes, i know i will be able to look at my (darn rough) sailor's hands and smile about the good old days. i hope no matter what may happen to you, or me, tomorrow that would lead to a conclusion of us being a sailor, our hands would always be a reminder that "we were once out there, in the winds cutting through water, wave after wave, while somtimes making perhaps the most ridiculous jokes ever".

with prayers,
kenneth on Blessed

Eleven months since the cancer diagnosis. I've had four major surgeries, many hours of recovery and rehabilitation and I'm left with a body that aches all the time and I have multiple lifting and bending restrictions. Mis'Adventure has not been wet since June 2010. Last weekend while visiting the lake to watch people sailing I brought up the discussion with Pam about the boat. She informed me that I'm her sailing partner and if I wasn't there she wasn't sailing anymore either. So our wonderful boat is going on the market soon. I will be posting in the classified section as soon as I can muster up the strength to post all the information. Fair winds to you all. If you see an old guy wondering the docks looking fondly at boats, say hi and offer him a ride!
 
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