Vang on hard; traveler down.
Bert,I don't what kind of a rig you're sailing, but here is what works best for for my Hunter 30, which is a fractional rig with a large main and 110 jib--this might not work for a masthead rig like a Catalina (which Don sadly still sails).I can delay reefing considerable by flatting the sail as much as possible with the vang (a rigid vang rigged to the cockpit really helps) and dropping the traveller leward as far as possible. I may ease the main a little to let the boom out further if needed, but it will take a winch to get it back in. This decreases the angle of attack, decreases heel, and keeps the sail from luffing. Easing the main sheet and vang to obtain more twist often results in the main luffing, getting backwinded by the jib (which is called a "fisherman's reef" and is not a bad strategy in big puff of wind), or the main too hard up against the spreaders (if you have swept back spreaders, like I do).With "vang on hard, traveler down" I can sail with full canvass to 20 kts of wind, point higher, keep heal at about 20 degrees, and fly at 6 1/2 to 7 knots.