Most people don't know what their boat weighs - I would not rely completely on antodotial comments and you can't rely much on manufacturers published data. My suggestion is to require the seller to provide a certified weigh ticket as part of the deal. This usually costs $10 at a public scale.
Then the solution is simple:
Step 1: Weigh the boat
Step 2: Buy a truck that is certified to tow that weight. All vehicle manufacturers are required to provide load and towing certifications for the folllowing:
Gross Combination Weight (GCW) - Total weight of a fully equipped truck and trailer with cargo, driver, and passengers, fuel, coolant, equipment, etc.
Gross Combination Weight Rating (GCWR) - Maximum allowable gross combination weight (GCW)
Gross Trailer Weight (GTW) - The weight of the trailer plus all the cargo in it. This is measured by putting a fully loaded trailer on a scale.
Gross Trailer Weight Rating (GTWR) - Maximum allowable weight of the trailer, plus its cargo.
Gross Vehicle Weight (GVW) - The total weight of the tow vehicle, including driver, passengers, and any special equipment (options, accessories and upfitted equipment), cargo, fuel, collant, etc.
Gross Vehicle Weight Rating (GVWR) - The maximum allowable total wieght of the tow vehicle, including driver, passengers, any special equipment (options, accessories and upfitted equipment), cargo, fuel, collant, etc.
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