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There's no way your fridge is pulling 75 amps, ,so let's get rid of that notion right now. No boat system, other than maybe your anchor windlass and starting system are pulling anyting close to this. If it were true, you'd need #2 guage or lower wiring just to handle the amperage. I'm guessing you don't.I'd agree that your rep was close to accurate, around 20 amps max.Forget about wattage. ALthough it's important for some calculations, it irrelevant here. Wattage is a measure of work, or "horsepower." The real concern is draw on your batteries, which is a function of amperage.There is no REAL constant in your system, as everything varies depending on the other. As voltage goes down, amps reduce, reducing effective work, or wattage. We make assumptions based on a constant 12v or 24v DC and 110vAC(sometimes 120vAC). So let's ask a few questions here.....What happens if you increase the RPM? If your batteries hold longer, than your alternator is not putting out enough amps to replenish your system under load... look for a bigger alternator, or more efficient fridge.It is possible that your starting battery is shutting down your charger. If you haven't installed one, look at a multi bank regulator for your alternator, and verify your chargers programming. It may be possible to change settings to charge longer before reverting to "trickle". I don't know your charging system, and would consult with the manufacturer.I did notice that you run starting and house batteries together. this is not necessarily the best option. A combiner would put the two banks together for charging, then separate for non charging use.I'm sure this will spark some discussion into electrical theory, but remember that there are exceptions to the basic rules depending on the application. For example and solar panel is rated in watts, or the ability of the unit to perform work. This is because the applications vary. The amount of usefulness is determined by the system is used in, example a 12V DC system can expect, on a perfect day, with perfect connections, and perfectly maintained batteries,that a 500watt solar panel will provide 41 Amps over a set period of time. Not all at once, nor will you get the full amount in a day. We make assumptions for camparisons and estimates.Don't fall into this trap. Consult your mfg reps for details on your fridge, answer the question of RPM affecting your charging, and go from there.Good luck