The wording may be the key, also. If it says "shippiing AND handling", that's one thing. If it says "shipping", I would expect that to be the cost of the carrier only, and none to the seller. I expect the seller to make his money on the product, not profiting on the hidden "shipping". And as my dear old pappy used to say, "to argue with a fool only proves there's two of them", so let's go back to the OP.