Well hello, New sailor, new boat owner. Bought a O-day 25 and trying to teach myself to sail. Had hard time finding wind. When I did it tried to blow me over. puckered me pretty good, twice!! Well finally did get some light winds that I could sail in and seemed to realize a problem. I was trying to steer the boat with the sails, thought this would be a good exercise. Now it's my understanding that a little weather helm is preferred? How ever to get any weather helm I had to have the jib so it was luffing slightly. And in the heavy winds, in which I was mostly in a panic trying to get sails down which I couldn't do because to much tension on them.I was unable to turn into the wind at all. Is standing rigging wrong? Or am I wrong? Oh yeah let out the main sheet next time!!!!