I am still kinda new at this stuff, I must be doing something wrong this past year when I was trying to reef my sail in 20 knot winds. Got caught out on lake michigan. I lowered the main sail, pulled the reef line no problem, but had to take off the sail stop to get the front ring over the metal thing on the front of the boom. Lost the sail stop to the lake. Is it normal to have to take the sail stop off in order to reef?