Dave - Re: Reefing and Sail Shape
In your post you mention you were reefing and your sails are original. With a properly trimmed new main and jib on a H35 you should be able to sail to weather comfortably in, say, 21 apparent, without feeling "tenderness" or too much weather helm. In fact, with seas that weren't too lumpy I've been able to go up into the 24 apparent okay without a reef but just because it can be done I don't mean to imply it should be done because depending on the sail cloth it can shorten the life of the sail. The first reef would be good around, say, 18 apparent, more to protect the sail than for seamanship reasons. As the sails get blown out you'll find the boat becomes increasingly more tender at lower wind speeds and the weather helm will also increase. These signs are signaling the need for new sails (assuming proper trim).As was pointed out a recut would be good at this point and that'll buy you some time to shop around for new sails and decide what options you want.The HL-35 is a great boat.