Yep, all good points. The points that gave me more confidence about it were that the way Sunbird22358 described it turning into the wind was precisely what I experienced, and the ballast definitely gives it more stability over an unballasted boat. Before I bought this one, the only thing I'd sailed were lasers that went over all the time, so it was what I was expecting. When I felt the 19 start to heel, I would instinctively dump wind and point in, but coming to terms with the fact that I have a ballast down there and also the shape of the hull made me feel far more confident in rolling with it and building trust in the boat.
I only bought this thing a couple of years ago. The first summer, we trail sailed it, but with the coronavirus situation this year, my wife suggested renting a slip, which we did. That facilitated sailing out of Bayport, on the south shore of Long Island, NY over to Fire Island whenever we wanted. The kids got the beach and I got the sail. After a while, we even strapped our bikes on and went for a ride when we were over there. We'll probably do the same thing next summer. It worked out well. My wife and I are both teachers, so we can get out a lot during the summer months.
I actually played with the idea of trying to sail up the south coast of CT and Rhode Island then cutting across to Martha's Vineyard and then over to Nantucket, which has been a goal of mine for a long time, but I ran it by Sunbird22358 since he has sailed those waters a long time and he made me realize that it probably wouldn't be a great idea. The 19 is a great bay boat, but to make that trip, I'll have to wait until I can upsize to something more substantial, sea worthy and comfortable. One day....