Sorry -- Didn't give response to your last question. A search of the forums should lead to lots of info about reefing techniques with a furler.
But in general, most furlers weren't intended to deal with the strain of pulling hard on the furler line (say with a winch) when the sail is under tension. Also the wraps on the drum can get embedded into each other. Instead, first ease the jib sheet so you've got a soft belly (reduced pressure) on the sail. In stronger winds, a beam reach does well for this. Then pull in the furler line to roll up the sail around the furler to the point you wish. Depending on how much sail you want to wrap, be sure to ease the jib sheet more than once so that the sail always maintains the soft belly. Putting the furler line around a winch can help with control and helps prevent the furler line from getting away and letting the sail run out again. But don't use the winch to forcefully roll up the sail. Another way to gain added control is to lead the furler line through a ratchet block -- last block mounted at the cockpit. You can pull in by hand, but as long as tension is maintained on the line, the line won't play out again.