The forestay or backstay upper toggles could also be 'flipped' (rolled and thus kinked) and the more you tighten the more you will exacerbate the kink, potentially destroying the 1x19 cable. Try loosening ALL the uppers and shaking the fore and backstays to see if one 'magically' becomes longer.
If that isn't successful, or if you know it's not the problem, then set the forestay and aft lowers alone (the way you should always start) and then add rake (aftwards lean) till the backstay aligns. Many people do not adequately apply mast rake.
The rake problem is made worse by headsail furlers. Many people do not check the adjustment of the forestay TB till the mast is up and access to the TB requires sliding up the drum and sometimes part of the foil. Then the lazy will deny this could account for anything because it's such a hassle to get to and pretend the problem is something else (sorry if I sound cynical but I have seen this MANY times. It's not a houseboat; don't live in De Nile). The headsail furler also adds a lot of (too much) weight inevitably causing headstay sag, which also causes the backstay to be too tight or too short. Getting the headstay right before setting anything else is VITAL... and when it's all wrong later, blame the furler again and get under there to adjust it then too.
And a tight forestay will help you point better too.
