Get a timer
You can leave the water on ... They (Home Depot etc) sell a nifty gadget that is used for watering plants and yards. It's a water timer. You set it for the number of gallons, turn on the water and walk away. When the set volume of water has gone through the timer, it shuts the water off.Set it for the number of gallons your pumps can handle in an hour or so and forget it. If a hose fails inside the boat, the worst than can happen is the pumps run for an hour or two.I wouldn't leave the boat for weeks with the water on, but when I was living aboard I slept better knowing I had a "fuse" in the shore water system.100 gallons goes a long way on a boat, reset when you turn the water on Friday night and turn the water off when you leave Monday morning. I doubt you'll use 100 gallons.Just a thought.

As far as the plumbing goes, by boat had copper pipe in the system. Sweated joints and fittings just like a house. Never had a problem with leaks or cracks. I used hose when I redid the system, but after 20+ years of Catalina flex the pipe was still sound. I'm thinking of going with semi rigid PVC just to get rid of the hose clamps. There should be no problem as long as the tubing is supported properly every 16" or so, just like the wire harness.If you are just going to leave it loose in the hull, use hose and check the hoses for chafe regularly.