Recently I bemoaned the dreaded cost per hour calculation. That conversation had actually been in response to renewed talk of when to step up to our next boat and what that boat should be (and how much to spend, thus the calculation mishap). She was the one who finally proclaimed 'now or never' on the purchase of our current boat and she has to be on board with the next one. Which brings me to the point of this thread. I've always liked full keel (or cutaway foot) doubled ended cutters (~28-32 ft) with lots of wood above and defintely below. These aren't the swiftest creatures in the fleet. She could easily live with no wood above decks and likes more open layouts below (she loved the Dufour 325). We don't really do extended cruising so we don't necessarily *need* a blue water rated boat. On the other hand, she isn't interested in something speedy and more or less Spartan like a J boat. So my question to you is how do you balance the needs of looks, comfort and performance when you are 'moving up'?It's exciting to look around, particularly on very calm evenings, even if our next purchase may be years away.(and I'm not heading for a divorce, so don't suggest finding a mate who likes the same features I do!)