BUY A DENTAL PIC AND LIQUID WRENCH...
I squirted Liquid Wrench on the jam nut, tapped the nut lightly with a hammer and let it set for an hour. It was the only thing that worked. Then I used a dental pic to dig out the old stuffing material. Mine took three layers, and be sure to alternate the seam on each layer so as to ensure a good seal. When you install the new material, initially hand tighten the stuffing box and lightly lock it. Break in the new material for a few weeks before adjusting the the drip rate (zero at rest, about four per minute running). If you over tighten the new material, it will burn and you will never get it to seal properly.Good luck.Terry