First boat
Jon I don't disaggree with you. When I was learning I would beg a ride on anything. Hobies, Sunfish, 22/28/18/44 footers. The first one I owned was a C22. Kids came, boat was traded in on a windsurfer, 15 yrs later I now have my C34. I have noting against a tiller, they provide a feel you cannot get with most wheels. They are just much harder to lock in place if the helm must be left for a moment or two. Also I think beginners tend to overcorrect which may cause unexpected tacks or gybes. Having the boom slam across the boat may cause some to say that's the last time I steer/come on the boat etc, especially if someone is hurt/knocked overboard. Since I've had my 34 I've seen too many people start too small. One family at my marina is on their 4th boat in 5 years. Daysailer to mid 20 to 30 to finally happy in a 36. Thats is alot of wasted money on outfitting, surveys, sales tax and dealer commissions. Will the learning curve be steeper in a 31 over something smaller? Probably yes, but some lessons to teach the basics and inviting some experiened boating friends along on a few of the first trips will help flatten it. If Norm has his eyes on a 310, that is probably what he wants, will he be happy in something smaller? He asks a fair question, hopefully our combined feedback will give him the answers he needs to make a educated decision.