By all means dream
Christian,
Still have the 20 footer? Sail it! Then sail it some more.
Spend a few weekends aboard. Then sail it some more.
Sail it in many conditions.
When you think you're ready, find the larger boat.
Then sail it.
Perhaps charter a boat in the islands, or the Med.
And learn.
A friend once told me the adage "You can learn to handle the boat in a weekend. You spend the rest of your life learning to sail"
The larger boat? You'll find it's a completely different world.
Having sailed a 22' boat starting in 1995, two years in after moving to a 34' I'm still amazed
at the differences. Systems, handling, maintenance.
You're in a great place to connect with people. People you can learn from.
As others have said this site is a perfect place to learn.
Build your experience.
And you'll build memories.
What you're proposing isn't impossible. But HIGHLY challenging.
And yes, many aspects are highly dangerous.
It's not "the road less traveled" for a reason. It's not for everyone.
But after you've sailed, then sailed some more.... if you find it's for you.....
You won't regret it.
Don't give up your dream.
Just don't throw your life (and your wife's) away trying to do it before you have the experience you need "out there".
Christian,
Still have the 20 footer? Sail it! Then sail it some more.
Spend a few weekends aboard. Then sail it some more.
Sail it in many conditions.
When you think you're ready, find the larger boat.
Then sail it.
Perhaps charter a boat in the islands, or the Med.
And learn.
A friend once told me the adage "You can learn to handle the boat in a weekend. You spend the rest of your life learning to sail"
The larger boat? You'll find it's a completely different world.
Having sailed a 22' boat starting in 1995, two years in after moving to a 34' I'm still amazed
at the differences. Systems, handling, maintenance.
You're in a great place to connect with people. People you can learn from.
As others have said this site is a perfect place to learn.
Build your experience.
And you'll build memories.
What you're proposing isn't impossible. But HIGHLY challenging.
And yes, many aspects are highly dangerous.
It's not "the road less traveled" for a reason. It's not for everyone.
But after you've sailed, then sailed some more.... if you find it's for you.....
You won't regret it.
Don't give up your dream.
Just don't throw your life (and your wife's) away trying to do it before you have the experience you need "out there".