im at that point in my life were itts time to do something tha i will remeber
Believe me, if you do just things like this,
http://home.roadrunner.com/~bmssez/06Cruise.htm
http://home.roadrunner.com/~bmssez/07JuneCruise.htm
http://home.roadrunner.com/~rlma/0907Cruise.htm
http://home.roadrunner.com/~rlma/GEfiles/Strider08Cruise.kml
http://home.roadrunner.com/~rlma/PEarticles.htm
you will remember. I say this from the perspective of having been sailing since 1963, seen a 100 foot schooner struggling back into the sunlight after being completely under water except for her two masts in the Gulf Stream, and sailing on a Russian square rigger through the tail end of a hurricane. Just casting off the lines before sunset, sailing across Portland harbor, anchoring for the night, and returning in the morning is still magic.
From your experience level, ANYTHING you do may be an incredible memory and the experience of a lifetime. If it isn't, it will be because you are one of the many, in fact the majority, of people who just don't find being cramped and uncomfortable sufficiently offset by the challenge, scenery, and adventure. In that case, you will more than detest ocean cruising. Wouldn't you rather find out before spending years and everything else on a boat you then have to dump for a fraction of what you put into it?
Here is a plan:
1) Read everything.
2) Take a small boat dinghy sailing course.
3) Take a keel boat cruising course.
4) Take one one of those courses followed by a week charter some of the charter outfits offer in Carribean.
5) Charter a boat in Turkey.
You'll be able to bail out at any point if you decide the sailing life isn't for you. At every step you will "have done something" without being commited to something that cuts off your other options. If you do turn out to be one of the very, very few who are cut out for the cruising life, then it will be time to think about getting a boat.