Typical, it takes a woman to stop and ask for directions.
As Gregg said, start with cleaning it it a good way to eliminate mold and find all things in need of repair. Here is a list of items I would start with.
Check your standing rigging for broken wires especially at the spreaders and ends.
Check your turnbuckle and other rigging for cracks or bends. Replace turnbuckle with a Johnson lever (makes setting up much easier there is currently one on Ebay).
Check all through hole fittings for signs of leaking especially at your first launch.
Check hoses and clamps at the winch cable and at the rear scupper hole.
Check the motor mount board. If it is still the old plywood one, it may look good but don't trust it, mine broke and I ended up fishing it out of the LA river, YUCK. Oh yeah tether you motor to the mount or rear stanchion.
Check your rudder hold down pin. To start with you can use a plastic bolt that will break if you ground it. They are available in the plumbing section at any hardware store and are used to hold down toilets. Later you may want to rig a hold down line for convenience.
Don't forget your trailer:
I replaced my front tongue 3x3 tube it was completely rotted out from the inside out after getting it home I was able to poke a 2'' hole that ran from the coupler to where it connects with the frame with a screw driver.
Check wheel bearing and repack or get bearing buddies and repack.
Check tires for side wall leaks, the tread may look new but the sun destroys the side walls.
Check your VHS if it is old or not working replace it. I ended up replacing mine and my antenna. Not horribly expensive but the reassurance of having a one button emergency hailer is comforting. There are varying opinions one mounted versus handheld. Personally I like having the antenna as high as possible, it increases your transmittal distance considerably.
For comfort:
I replace my 2'' foam with 3'' and covered with duck cloth. When and if I redo them I will cover with Sunbrella, although some of the other cloths presented on this forum look great.
Bring all lines to the cockpit not just for comfort but for safety reasons, especially if soloing.
A GPS is nice to have but for the first couple of years I used my handheld $125 Garmin Venture. I came in handy when returning from Catalina for the first time. I forgot to look back and memorize some landmarks at Long Beach harbor. I knew the launch was near the Queen Mary but couldn't see her behind all of the cargo containers. I was able to locate her as a waypoint on the Venture.
Best of luck and welcome to the forum.
Where are you located in So. Cal.?