I finally broke down and replaced the entire holding tank system (the old bladder had leaks and the smell was just too much). So, I'm just about done and I'm down to the last connection - the intake and pump-out from the holding tank. I'm using 1 1/2 hoses and have the plastic adapters that screw into the Todd holding tank. My problem - I can't for the life of me get these adapters into the hoses. I've used every bit of strength that I have, tried to screw them in, even tried using vaseline and KY - no go. Thought maybe using a hose spreader would be a good idea (memories of the movie RV come to mind), but I can't find one in that size.Any suggestions? BTW - the hoses are all in the boat already, so leverage is a bit of an issue. I didn't want to have to pull them back out - I'm already all cut to pieces from the first installation.On a positive note, the smell is all gone and the first mate is much happier now!Regards,Tom