Your tacking angle...when discussing degrees from one closehauled tack to the other is measured against true wind direction, it can vary with wind speed, or sea state on one tack or the other.....but you can easily determine that when you first go out. You can determine true wind direction by taking the average between the starboard and port tack headings when close hauled.......... those number will allow you to determine the lay line, whether you're ahead or behind another boat, or whether you are clear to tack across. On my boat, if I can get 90, I'm happy as a lark... but it there are waves or tidal issues it will vary... usually 100 is more common... I've never got below 90.
Apparent wind is used to trim the sails... if you keep your apparent wind at 45 deg...you will not sail a straight course if boat speed changes, OR if true wind speed and direction change. So.. once you set your course and adjust your sails and your AWD is 50, say, then as long as boat speed, true wind dir and speed, are the same then your AWD will stay at 50.... but... if your boat speed increases your AWD will move forward to 45 say... now you figure you're at your optimum trim angle (this is common for daysailing) so you steer the boat using the masthead fly (AWD) or jib telltales then check your course... guess what? Ask yourself why it's called APPARENT.... and TRUE.
So what do most folks do.. myself included... when they're out for an afternoon's pleasure... they trim the sails, then steer to the tell tales or use the AWD of 45 deg to keep moving pleasantly along, listening to their favorite remix or an Angel game and sipping a non-alcohol St. Pauli Girl....