I Prefer Reverse
My preference for feathering the prop is to shift into reverse because it's pretty guarenteed that it feathers. Like you, it is very hard for me to shift out of reverse with the engine off so I just hit the start button and as soon as the engine starts it will shift easily. There is absolutely no problem that I'm aware of with this procedure. My engine is a Yanmar 3GM30.I'm sure the prop will *mostly* feather with the engine in forward but the boat speed has to be faster where as shifting into reverse is a no-brainer. In forward maybe you're only getting, say, a 90 percent of a feathered prop and the other 10 percent is what is still causing the shaft to turn. Go to a yard and look around for someone with a Max-prop and feel how much it takes to rotate the blades. Now you can get an idea of how much water pressure it takes to get the blades 100-percent feathered.Anyway, that's my 2 cents worth.By the way, I've had my 2-blade prop now for about 15 years now and it's one of the best additions I ever added. Boat sails a lot faster and is quieter because of no turbulence or transmission noise - and - I sail more and motor less.Hope you get past this item and start to enjoy it more.