I'll be a contrarian... just for the sake of being a contrarian. First of all, clearly your macerator is toast and needs to be tossed. I don't have a suggestion for a replacement, and I don't know whether I'd buy a Jabsco if I needed a new macerator.
But I will say that my Jabsco 18590, which was 16 years old, was in fine shape after replacing the 4 brass rods with stainless, and replacing the gasket. In fact, I did buy the rebuild kit (impeller, impeller housing, gasket), but I'm not even sure there was a problem with the old impeller and housing: the main things that needed replacing were the 4 rods that hold the whole thing together and the paper gaskets. After rebuilding it, I really don't see anything to criticize except for the brass rods, and I think I read that they use stainless in the new units nowadays. It looks almost new.