You just identified the cause of your problem, Pat
Your macerator is above the tank, which means the macerator--and the impeller--has to run dry long enough to lift the sewage out of the tank to the pump. Running dry, even for just a second or two, is the worst thing you can do to any impeller...the edges of the vanes start to overheat immediately, which causes wear--uneven wear--which can lead to leakage and the problems you found...sometimes immediately, sometimes just over time.. Btw...a visual inspection of an impeller won't reveal damage until it's fairly severe. It can look just fine, but still be "fried." Just because what was left of it didn't appear dry and brittle doesn't mean the vanes hadn't dried out. It doesn't take much for it to lose enough of its flexibility to fail.That your macerator is used so seldom is all the MORE reason to replace the impeller--and prob'ly the gaskets too--annually. The less an impeller or anything else is used, the more vulnerable it becomes to failure. Liveaboards have far fewer problems will all systems than weekenders do because equipment suffers more from disuse than constant use. Seals, gaskets, valves dry out from disuse...contract and expand from temperature changes, etc. They'll soften up some when put back into service, but degrade a bit each time...and fail sooner than those used constantly.The SeaLand overboard discharge pump is electric. Only draws about 4.5 amps, so no big deal electrically. More importantly, whether manual or electric, diaphragm pumps can run dry and therefore can be mounted above the tank. And while diaphragms aren't 100% failure-proof, they aren't subjected to the friction heat that impellers are, and therefore are a lot longer-lived. You'll be a lot happier with any diaphragm pump that's rated for sewage handling.