OK, I see that you have a 260 and understand your reasoning
Is your intent to use the nylon for stretch or for budget? If budget, the nylon may not help much in that it is very slick and abrasion resistance is low. I'd spring for the not-much-more expensive Samson LS. I suspect the 5/16 would be plenty strong and since it is a small jib, you would not need a lot of it and it would hold in cleats and winches much better. Since most of your power is in your main, I'd also suggest that you practice playing your mainsheet and traveler to manage the gusts. Also there is nothing wrong with putting a reef in your main. It might be slightly underpowered in say 8-10 knots but a 15+ gust wouldn't upset things quite so much. One technique I've used too is to let the boat round up a bit in gusts; especially if closehauled. Others with hands-on experience with their 260 might advise as well. BTW, I have a 280 which has a similar jib/main design.