Your description, assuming say 15 kts. breeze, seems a little looser than I'd be comfortable with Mark. Now, different folks like different tunes, San Diego tunes loose for speed in light airs, San Francisco tunes tight for gusty stronger winds.
Usual to start a "static" tune at the dock setting to 10% of the wire strength with a Loos gauge. Then you observe what happens in a stiff breeze like you did, and adjust both sides equal till that slack is where you like it.