Well now you "Gone and Done it". The can of worms has been opened. This is my take on it.Hey guys thanks for the responses so far. My plan is to start using the ICW to Jacksonville then cut through to the Bahamas at first after a year or two the plan will be to take the ICW to around Moorehead North Carolina cutting east southeast then south to the leewards and then putt around to the windwards. As I could easily go for a vessel around 36-40 I'm keeping the wife in mind as she like most women like more space found in the larger boats. My biggest worry is that people say the production boats can't hold up to the beating of a "blue water water boat" mean while the boats at 50ft have over 100 gal fuel and water.
The difference between a production boat and non-production boat is:
1, The number of boats manufactured in a year.
2, The number of options you can choose from.
As to can a production boat hold up to blue water sailing?
It all falls back on the Captain and crew and how you have outfitted her. When my Oceanis 37 comes in and she is fully outfitted; I will put her up against any other boat out there as far as capability goes where I want to venture. Do I want to sail around the Horn? Probably not. Do I want to venture into the Southern Ocean? Probably not. Do I want to tackle the North Atlantic? Probably not. Do I want to sail into the eye of a Hurricane? Probably not.
Go back to my first post on this thread and clear your mind of all the trash and begin to ask yourself some very serious questions. Even your kids cannot be a factor for you. It's you and your wife that will be on her all the time. Others will be visitors and can be accommodated on a temporary bass.
identify your sailing grounds. Know the seasons for the different seasons offer different challenges. Determine what the two of you feel is the cabin layout for the two of you. Do you want to accommodate or have stowage. Stay within your budget and that includes all the necessary repairs and upgrades if you go used. get everything done up front. The idea is to sail and not spend your future fixing and upgrading.