which style of knot meter would provide optimal feedback when adjusting sail trim?
I'm not certain what you mean by style of knot meter.
Most knot meters use a paddle wheel transducer. As the paddle hwheel spins faster, it generates a higher voltage, the knot meter display is essentially a volt meter that displays the voltage as a speed.
Transducer placement is important. The best location is on the boat's centerline ahead of the keel in undisturbed water. The further the transducer is from this point, the less accurate the knot meter will be.
You may know all this, however it is important to understand these factors to answer your question.
Assuming the transducer is in as close as possible to the optimal position there are 2 adjustments that can be made to the display, the dampening factor and to what precision the display reads.
Dampening refers average time span between changes in the display. The display will show the average speed not the actual speed. Dampening determines the time span over which the averaging occurs. In other words, is the speed updated every second, every 5 seconds, etc. This is a user option, typically under the system settings menu.
The second issue is the precision of the display, i.e., to how many decimal points will the speed be displayed, usually 0, 1, or 2 decimal points. Again the user can set this parameter. The greater the number of decimal points, the more reactive the displayed speed will be.
That's all a background to your question, given this the answer may seem to be a knot meter that can display speed in a very short interval to a high degree of precision. That may not be what you really want.
There are many factors which affect boat speed, small variations in windspeed, wave action, crew movement, tiller movement, a passing patch of seaweed, another boat's wake, you get the picture. If the speed is updated too often or at too great a precision there will be an urge to adjust the sail trim. Which might be the wrong thing to do.
Then there is the laws of inertia. Changing sail trim is essentially changing the energy being generated by the sails. It takes time for changes in sail trim to affect boat speed in either direction.
If you are looking to optimize boat speed and sail trim, tell tales are the best. Get your Genoa telltales sreaming right and the leech telltales on the main right and your boat speed will be optimal. Changes in trim will be immediately available. Changes in boat speed as measured by a knot meter will lag.
Finally, almost all transducers are made by Airmar, so it doesn't matter whether you buy a B&G, Raymarine, or Garmin knot meter, they all use the same transducer. The display and the software interpreting the transducer matters. My preference is for B&G they have the longest history in providing sailing instrumentation, and an out standing pedigree. Garmin is a late comer to the marine world.