Years ago, when I was trying to figure out sail trim, which incidently confused the hell out of me, I had few places to go. I could talk to dock neigbors and YC friend but number one was I "didn't know what I didn't know" and I wasn't even asking the correct question. As RichH says, talk about "cross controlling the sail trim controls" you should have heard some of the answer I received but I tried them all but got nowhere. I could have looked up the questions in sailing books if I knew where to look but I had the cart before the horse. The major break through came when I realized I had to focus on what the sail trim controls for the main and jib were actually adjusting. Once I figured that out I was home free.
But I digress -- the point I wanted to make was NUXER started out on the morning of 10/7 with a question and by the afternoon he had a complete answer and all the info, and then some, that he needed to formulate a plan. Where was the sail trim forum when I needed them years ago!?!! Unfortunately, it didn't exist. If it had I wouldn't have pulled out half my hair trying to figure out sail trim.
Going to the "ask all sailors" section, where I cruise to sometimes, reminds me as to all the times I talked to my dock neighbors and YC friends about sail trim questions. Their heart was in the right place but they mixed me up and had me "cross controlling". With some of the sail trim questions I see on other sections on this site I want to tell them to pop on over to the sail trim forum with their question. They'll get the straight skinny and even if they don't know the question guys like RichH, Joe from San Deigo, StuJ and sometime myself have heard every possible sail trim question one could ask and they'll figure out what a mate is asking or should be asking. I think it's great that sailboatowners.com provides this forum. There is none other like it that I know of.