Very good points. Now I had a flash of 'something'. Could you put 2 check valves behind the T? One to stop sucking from the AC, and another to stop sucking from the engine? I have a great desire to not have another thru hull. But am having cold sweats at the thought of the engine running without water.
I'm sorry but I have to admit I've been reading all of this with just a bit of amusement. I can understand your desire to not have mor through hulls than necessary but it seems like in your quest to not have a through hull you are adding complexity via Tees, back flow preventers and valves or worse putting your engine at risk, putting the air conditioner at risk or creating all sorts of issues with your head.
Don't do, it is really not a huge deal to drill a hole in the boat for a new through hull. Just my opinion but I'd do, it right and put the through hull in. At a minimum I'd check with the manufacturer to see what they recommend.
Our 38 came from the factory with below water through hulls for the air conditioner, the engine intake, the galley sink, the head sink and the macerator discharge. Above the water line are 2 for the air conditioners (we have two air conditioners), the auto bilge pump, the manual bilge pump, the propane locker, the anchor locker, the engine exhaust. And then let's not forget tank vents. So what's one more hole when properly installed.