Sailing with Children
We generally held our 6-9 month old while in the cockpit through the first season. Occasionally, we'd put her in a car-seat on the cockpit floor- not buckled in. Next season at 18 months was more of a challenge as she was VERY mobile. We used a harness & tether, but she had a difficult time being restrained. Consequently, my wife spent the better part of the season chasing her around the boat. We ALWAYS made sure she had a lifejacket on while on deck under way. Below deck and while at the dock, we didn't require it, but always kept a sharp eye on her. This season, in addition to the now 2 1/2 year old we've added a 4 month old to our inventory, should be interesting to see how it shakes out. Couple of pointers- the first season, the motion tends to lull a baby to sleep. Maddie slept 85% of the time we were underway that year. - If your child is mobile, I'd recommend netting. Maddie has been in swimming lessons since around 4 months, so while she was not yet strong enough to support herself in the water, she has no fear of it. We spent a LOT of time pulling her away from the rails to prevent her from jumping in. The netting would have been a big help to us last year. - sail with a third hand on-board. If your wife starts to associate the boat with chasing after your child all afternoon- it won't be long before you're sailing alone.- if you don't already have one, install a roller-furler. Do whatever you can to prevent the need for you to leave the cockpit. Your wife will thank you and you'll be amazed at how much simpler sailing can be. - Whatever you decide to do with the lifejacket- be consistent, no exceptions. Bear in mind, though that making a child wear a heavy, hot lifejacket below deck on a ninety-degree day treads a thin line between safety and cruelty. Good luck, and remember that you are bringing your child up into an experience that will broaden his/ her horizons and offers rewards too numerous to count. I dream of the day when I can turn the tiller over to my daughter for her first race or just a leisurely family cruise. You are teaching your child to slow down and bask in the world around him/ her- "to drink life to the lees" Enjoy it.