We are new owners of 2010 Beneteau 31. Prior to that, we owned a 1978 23 O'Day. So this is new for us. We may have made a mistake by choosing in mast furling rather than a traditioinal mainsail with lazy jacks. We are looking for a good explanation of how to use the system, e.g. pull out and furl in the main, maintenance, avoiding bunching of the sail in the main. We understand that the mainsheet should be relaxed. We have been told that before letting the main out or furling it in the bow should be in the wind and we have read that the bow should be 60 degrees off the wind. We are confused. Thanx in advance for any responses.