Here is my reccomendation
If your boat is plumbed with the gray plastic pipe, it's probably not PEX, it's Polybutylene, and it's put together with Qest fittings. That was what was commonly used for boat and RV plumbing through the late 90's. Qest fittings are very easy to work with and you can get whatever you need here:
http://www.plumbingsupply.com/polyb.html
PEX is polyethylene. Don't try to use PEX fittings on Polybutylene pipe. You won't like the results.
I agree that the grey stuff is Quest.
It is an old system, and a little dated. Fittings aren't easy to come by, and connect- disconnect can give you leaks if the mandrels get over- compressed.
My suggestion is to bite the bullet and change over to 15mm Whale.
It is a wonderful system, and everyone uses it.
As such, it's not that expensive, and parts are easy to come by.
A great stocking distributor with low prices is Defender.
I highly reccomend buying everything from them.
Basically, use a bunch of string to measure out your pipe runs.
If you don't want to replace the piping, what you could do is leave the Quest in place, and then adapt at junctions (where you have NPt fittings), adapt to Whale.
What you will find with Whale is that connect / disconnect (for winterizing) is a real breeze.
Overall, you will be very happy once this job is done.
Good luck!!