My heads are backfilling with waste. There is back pressure when I try to empty the bowl. Also, it bubbles after I stop pumping.
The classic indication that the tank vent is blocked.
All tank vents have two main functions: to provide an escape for air displaced by incoming contents and provide a source of air to replace contents as they're pulled out. When air displaced by incoming waste cannot escape out the vent the tank becomes pressurized, creating increasing back pressure that prevents the toilet from flushing.
Without a source of air to replace contents as they're being sucked out of the tank, the pump will pull a vacuum that'll prevent it from pulling out more than a gallon or two. A particularly strong pumpout can even implode a tank.
Do NOT use the toilet again or try to pump out or dump the tank until you've cleared the vent.
The two most common locations for a vent blockage are the vent thru-hull and the other end of the vent line--that end of the hose and the vent fitting on the tank. Start by cleaning out the thru-hull...use a screwdriver blade, ice pick--whatever works. If there' a screen in it, knock it out...screens create more problems than they prevent.If that doesn't result in a spew out the vent, you'll need to relieve the pressure before removing the vent line from the tank to clean them out...so open the deck pumpout fitting VERY CAREFULLY with a hose at the ready. Be sure you're UPwind of it! Scrape out that end of the vent line and the vent fitting on the tank...reconnect the vent line.
If there's a filter in the vent line, remove it...once a filter gets wet--which can happen when a tank is overfilled or even due to heeling--the charcoal swells and blocks the vent...one of the reasons why vent filters aren't recommended for use on most sailboats.
I also strongly recommend you replace the "vent" thru-hull (which are designed to keep sea water out of fuel and water tanks, not suitable for waste tanks, but boat builders use 'em anyway 'cuz it costs 'em less to use the same thru-hull everywhere) with an open bulkhead aka "mushroom" thru-hull. Not only will the allow more air exchange with the gasses in the tank, but it'll also prevent vent blockages by allowing you to put a hose nozzle against it to back flush the vent line every time you wash the boat and/or pump out. Anything that's tried to set up house keeping it will just get a water slide ride into the tank.
--Peggie